Maybe the only good thing about a memorial is seeing family and friends all at once. This is the first time I realized how small my family is. I only have three cousins, one aunt, and one grandparent. I have second cousins, great aunts and uncles, and a bunch of "adopted" grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. The six cousins have all been together only three times in ten years. Only for funerals. Our kids, 12 in all (Logan made the even dozen), are so close in age and love to spend time together. We have to plan a family trip when there isn't a loss to mourn. Summer 2008 maybe. I'd love to see them all together at one time! Here I am with my brothers and my only 3 cousins from Michigan.